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ini Liburan, bukan Pindahan!

Libur panjang memang selalu dinanti, apalagi kalau perginya rame-rame bareng sahabat. Mulai dari tempat menginap, transportasi yang digunakan, dan tempat wisata tujuan, semua sudah direncanakan dari sekarang. Persiapan sudah terlihat matang dan sempurna? Tunggu dulu… coba dicek lagi, di antara rombongan sahabatmu, ada kaum hawa gak? Karena kalau ada kaum hawa, itu tandanya perjalanan menuju tempat tujuan mungkin sedikit merepotkan, hahaha. Kenapa? Karena mereka ditakdirkan untuk merepotkan para adam, wkwkw. Gak kok, bukan karena itu. Jadi begini, cewek-cewek itu sudah terkenal di kalangan masyarakat kalau mau liburan bawaannya pasti rempong. Sebenernya cewek sendiri juga gak mau rempong kok, tapi susssaah banget, udah punya naluri kalau pergi jauh yang harus nginep bawa 1 tas ransel itu gak cukup!

Nah mungkin dengan tahu alasan kenapa cewek itu rempong bisa membuat cowok-cowok lebih memaklumi kami, kaum wanita yang berhati lelembut. Ada sedikit tips juga untuk para wanita rempong yang mau liburan tapi pingin bisa lebih ringkas dengan barang bawaannya. Kenapa saya bisa sok tahu menulis seperti ini? Jelas dong, saya kan juga wanita, pernah mengalami hal-hal ribet hingga akhirnya sekarang memilih untuk bertaubat, semoga tips ini bisa membantu ya! Hahaha.

ALASAN PARA WANITA REMPONG KETIKA PACKING

Alasan 1 – Sedia payung sebelum mendung

Perginya cuman 2 hari 1 malam tapi bawa baju 10, celana 4, topi 3, lipstik 5, dll dll. Padahal kalau dipikir-pikir bawa baju 5 aja udah kebanyakan buat cowok. Ini karena para cewek itu bingung ketika packing harus memilih baju yang pingin dia pakai atau baju yang cocok dengan tempat wisata atau baju yang kelihatan cantik buat dipakai atau belum lagi ada pikiran jangan-jangan nanti ada orang lain pakai baju yang sama jadi mesti bawa baju cadangan, nah itung aja baju yang dibawa si cewek itu sejumlah dengan kebingungannya dikalikan total tempat kunjungan.

Alasan 2 – Perubahan mood ketika tiba di tempat tujuan

Alasan kedua ini bisa terjadi dengan kronologis sebagai berikut:

  1. Lipstik merah sih oke ya, tapi kalau tiba-tiba pingin pakai lipstik oranye gimana? Atau siapa tahu lipstik ungu lebih kece karena lagi nge-trend. Yaudah deh bawa semua aja, ringan kok.
  2. Punya topi 3 beda style semua, belum tahu suasana tempat yang dikunjungi nanti cocoknya pakai topi yang mana. Buat jaga-jaga dibawa semua, toh cuman 3.
  3. Pingin bawa sandal tapi kalau cuaca panas nanti kaki item, mau bawa sepatu kalau hujan ribet. Lebih baik bawa sandal dan sepatu dulu, keputusannya nanti kalau udah di sana.

Alasan 3 – Teman baik selalu ada untuk membantu

Hanya teman sejati yang bisa punya pemikiran seperti ini. Dia selalu memikirkan keadaan temannya, dia akan berpikir siapa tahu temannya lupa bawa celana pendek buat main di pantai atau mungkin temannya cuman bawa baju sedikit, jadi dia siap siaga membawakan cadangan celana dan baju untuk temannya. Ternyata, temannya pun berpikiran sama dengan dia. Benar-benar sahabat sejati, sama-sama rempongnya.

TIPS PACKING UNTUK WANITA REMPONG

  1. Jangan membawa banyak cadangan pakaian dan barang lain

Ketika packing, akan lebih mudah bila jadwal kunjungan sudah dibuat, karena bisa menentukan pakaian apa yang sesuai di jadwal dan tempat kunjungan sehingga bisa membawa cadangan pakaian secukupnya. Misal apabila di jadwal hanya 1x kunjungan dipantai, maka cadangan baju yang dibawa cukup 1 saja. Sama seperti sandal dan sepatu, kalau memang tidak ada kunjungan yang mengharuskan kamu menggunakan sepatu, ya cukup bawa 1 sandal aja.

  1. Menggunakan baju yang sama di tempat kunjungan berbeda

Jangan sampai pemikiran untuk terlihat cantik saat di foto membuat kamu ribet dengan barang bawaan karena membawa banyak baju yang berbeda untuk dipakai di tempat yang berbeda. Bila dalam satu hari ada dua kali kunjungan dan dirasa masih bisa menggunakan baju yang sama, kenapa tidak? Inget, yang penting fungsinya bukan pinginnya ya. Sama seperti lipstik, topi, dan barang lainnya, cukup satu jenis, gak perlu bawa cadangan banyak-banyak.

  1. Travel size

Kalau kamu wanita, pasti sudah familiar dengan barang-barang travel size yang ditawarkan produsen make up dan perawatan tubuh dong. Jangan menganggap produk-produk travel size ini boros untuk dibeli ya, apalagi kalau kamu hobi jalan-jalan, wajib punya! Atau kalau kamu bukan tipe orang yang suka bepergian jauh dan lama, bisa gunakan botol-botol kosong yang berukuran kecil untuk diisi sabun, sampo, dll, toh setelah pulang tetap bisa dipakai kan di rumah.

  1. Mencatat pakaian yang digunakan sesuai di jadwal wisata

Seperti yang saya katakan pada poin 1, akan lebih mudah bila jadwal perjalanan sudah dibuat. Tulis ulang jadwal perjalanan di kertas atau handphone, di setiap kunjungan, tulis pakaian apa yang akan kamu pakai, dari situ akan mempermudah kamu membuat perencanaan barang bawaan.

Untuk mempermudah kamu memahami tulisan saya di atas, mungkin pengalaman saya ini bisa membantu. Beberapa bulan lalu saya melakukan perjalanan dari Yogyakarta ke Jawa Timur selama 4 hari 2 malam hanya membawa 1 tas ransel dan 1 tas jinjing. Tas ransel isinya adalah pakaian, charger handphone, dan peralatan mandi. Tas jinjing isinya handphone, dompet, make up, mp3, snack, tisu, dan mukena.

Hari 1

19.00 – berangkat dari Yogyakarta ke Jawa Timur = kaos merah emas+jaket+jeans+kaos kaki pink

Hari 2

06.30-17.00 – kunjungan wisata 1 & wisata 2 = kemeja putih+jeans

18.00-20.00 – istirahat di hotel = baju tidur MA

20.30-22.00 – jalan-jalan = sweater biru putih+jeans

22.00-hari 3 – tidur di hotel = baju tidur MA

Hari 3

06.30-17.00 – kunjungan wisata 3 & wisata 4 = baju batik+jeans

18.00-19.00 – istirahat di hotel = baju tidur MA

20.00-22.00 – kunjungan wisata 5 = sweater biru putih+jeans

22.00-hari 4 – tidur di hotel = baju tidur MA

Hari 4

08.00-14.00 – kunjungan wisata 6 = sweater biru putih+jeans

15.00-23.00 – perjalanan pulang ke Yogyakarta = kaos panjang+jaket+jeans+kaos kaki hitam

Nah dari susunan di atas, bisa dilihat selama 4 hari 2 malam, saya hanya membawa 6 baju, 1 jaket, 1 celana jeans, 1 sepatu,dan 2 kaos kaki. Saya menggunakan pakaian yang sama untuk beberapa tempat kunjungan dengan pertimbangan baju tersebut tidak terkontaminasi bau keringat, kotor, atau basah. Contohnya sweater biru putih yang saya gunakan di 3 tempat wisata karena kunjungannya dilakukan malam hari dan waktunya singkat. Kalaupun mau membawa cadangan lagi, cukup membawa cadangan 1 celana jeans dan 1 baju. Bagaimana ladies? Sudah siap jalan-jalan tanpa pusing memikirkan barang bawaan? Capcuss dehh..

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The funny, lovely, and crazy Youtubers! (List of my favourite Youtubers)

How happy we are if we can do our hobbies but also we get pay? Thanks to the internet, you can do that easily nowadays.

Youtuber is someone who share video on Youtube (http://www.yourdictionary.com/youtuber). You can find so so so so so many Youtubers nowadays. Some youtubers share their hobby, other youtubers tell a story or do something funny, while the others give a tips. Which one is your favourite? Here, I will share about my favourite Youtubers and their videos.

  1. Kevjumba

I accidentally found Kevjumba in Youtube a few years ago. He upload a funny videos with unique topics. Whenever you feel sad, just watch Kevjumba videos and you can get your laugh back. Kevjumba is the first Youtuber who attract me. Unfortunately, Kevjumba who has a real name Kevin Wu, left his activity as Youtuber since 2013. There are rumours about his leaving. Some people guess he become a monk due to his charity activity in Africa. But, don’t worry, his videos are still available in his channel. The video below are my favourite video from Kevjumba.

  1. Nigahiga (2nd channel: HigaTV)

His real name is Ryan Higa. He is Kevjumba’s friend. The type of videos that he upload is similar with Kevjumbas’, but I admit that he is very creative in making video. I strongly recommend you to watch his video. Not forget to mention that he is also very very popular to the people around the world.

  1. Michelle Phan

Hmm.. it’s difficult to describe Michelle Phan. She is very talented, lovely, and inspiring. In her youtube channel, there are many inspiring videos, especially to girls. Mostly, her videos are about make up tips. I believe that you will astonished watch her make up tutorial. Well, I think you can judge her by yourself from watching her videos, so what are you wating for? Quickly watch her channel right now!

  1. Smosh

Smosh has 20.362.049 subscribers! You can guess yourself how popular they are. Ian Hecox and Anthony Padilla are the owner of Smosh channel. They make funny parodies video which will make you laugh endlessly. The more shocking is that they had interviewed Emma Watson (Hermione Granger in Harry Potter Movie) and Tom Hiddleston (Loki in Thor Movie) in their video. I found Smosh recently from my friend. But actually, Smosh was born on Youtube since 2005. There are so many videos that I want to recommend, but it won’t make you curious. Check the rest videos by yourself in their channel!

  1. TheFineBros

Another popular Youtuber. TheFineBros consist of two brothers, they are Benny Fine and Rafi Fine. They make a react videos series which is very interesting to watch. Well, hmm.. it’s difficult to explain if you don’t watch it by yourself.

Actually, I still have many favourite Youtubers. But I lost my energy to typing the words, sorry. So, I will just mention the channels’ name of my other favourite Youtubers. They are: Asian Beauty Secret (beauty&health tips), AreWeFamousNow (the opinion from people about muslim), Off The Great Wall (discuss interesting topics), and G Diipa (beauty tips). Enjoy!

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You had to do something When you are nothing

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These days, I feel so lazy to writing a post. Maybe due to I don’t have something to do. Huh? Are you confuse? Well, this is just my opinion, when you have too much free time, you will more lazy to move around. Why? Well, I don’t know. Perhaps because you are too comfortable lying on the couch. Or maybe you lose your spirit.

BUT this time! Right now! I wanna change! Yes, I have to.

After reading this post, I wish you got motivated to. Actually, I addressed this post especially for a job seeker (same with my condition now).

After I daydreaming long enough, I had thought how to fight my laziness. That is… I have to do something. Whatever it is, I shouldn’t be lazy. Because the laziness will make you more lazy. Now, I will share some activities you can do in your ‘very’ free time.

  1. Improve your english language (if your mother-tongue is not english)

There are many many ways to improve your english skill. If you are too lazy to study, you can do this in a fun way. This is what I actually do to improve my english :

a. Watch english movie with english subtitle. It will help your listening, speaking, and vocabulary. When you find a word that you don’t understand, you have to write it and looking for the meaning of that word.

b. Watch any movie with english subtitle. Whether the movie is korean movie or thailand movie, don’t choose your own native language subtitle. The point is, whatever its movie, choose english subtitle.

c. If you are confident enough, you can watch english movie without subtitle. Wanna try?

  1. Learning foreign languages

Don’t you feel bored to speak the same language everyday? Especially when communication links are already very extensive, you can talk to someone who is far away in another country. You may speak english for your communication, but it would be more interesting if you can speak their language. Besides, it could give more value in your cv (curriculum vitae) when you apply for a job.

  1. Listening foreign music, read the lyric, find the meaning

Again and again, this is all about improving foreign language skill. Well, sorry, actually this is just my hobby. But this is very helpful, right?

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  1. Produce sweat

I mean you should do exercise. When you are too lazy and do nothing, you are accumulating fat in your body. In exercise, you can do what you like to do. If you like to swim, then swimming, if you like to run, you may do jogging, or you can just play soccer with your friends. Even household chores is an exercise! So, come on, let’s exercise, and get healthy!

Well, no matter how hard I try to think, I couldn’t find another way to kill our free times. But I wish this article can give you an inspiration, so you can have a quality time in your free time. Especially for a job seeker, let’s do useful things while hoping to get a call from the company. Goodluck, guys!

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New Year’s Eve.. Party time?

Tomorrow is New Year, it may has a special meaning for some people. A new career, new relationship, new personality, or just new outfit. And tonight, there will be many kind of events with many kind of people. Well, I can’t say it is an event, because we usually describe events as celebration, while someone maybe just sitting alone watching television. So, I think many kind of activities can be more represent about what people will do tonight.
Here, I will write various activities which can describe the personality. I’m not an expert, so it may not the same with your opinion.
1. Tick Tock Tick Tock, Don’t Stop The Party!

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We start with the extremes one. This kind of people usually like to party in their daily life. New Year’s eve party is just an excuse for them. The only difference is they have to prepare the trumpet to be blown in the midnight, shows that the year was changed. Coming alone to the party is not a matter to them, it is due to they always feel the party is like their own home, soooo comfortable, no matter where the place is.
2. Just Because…

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Just because people usually celebrate it, just because there is once a year event , just because my friends invite me, and so many another ‘just because…’
They don’t want to miss this special event. Yep, this kind of people usually partying only on special day. Surely, they like to meet new people. Or in some case, the introvert who doesn’t like the crowded, is forced to come. And.. what did they do there? Eat, drink, dance, jump, take a photo and ends with blowing trumpet. And then sleep. At their own home, of course.
3. Garden Party, Simple but Meaningful

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What’s on your mind if you choose this events? Barbecue? Talk about the other funny secret? Or lying in the grass looking at the stars? For the last option, make sure the sky is clear enough tonight.
I’ve done this event, long time ago. My classmates and I have a small party in New Year’s eve. There is no barbecue, we just burn the corn, and cooking together while waiting for a new year. But it is very meaningful, because we feel togetherness.
I think it will be more fun if you have the garden party with your family, do you know why? Because you don’t have to spending money buying foods, everything is on your parents, ha ha ha.
4. Is there something to watch in TV?

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There is always a plan in New Year’s eve. Even watching a TV is a plan. This is what I choose in my New Year’s eve. I don’t like crowds. I don’t like being stuck in traffic jam. I prefer lying in couches with a glass of warm chocolate while watching television, alone or with my family. I never think New Year is a special day to celebrate. I just think that, well, tomorrow is 2015, I wake up from my bed, take a shower, have a breakfast, and… do what I always do.
So, what kind of person are you in New Year’s eve?

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EARTH HOUR’S’ not EARTH HOUR!

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In my country, Indonesia, we have some special moment. One of all the moment that attract me is EARTH HOUR moment. This moment invite us to save the energy in an hour. Well, just an hour.

I don’t know how many times this moment happen in a year, I guess it happen oftenly than I thought. What I remember is that I never celebrate that moment. Not because I don’t care about the ‘save energy’ thing, but because I have my own way to do that.

Whenever I got invitation to celebrate the EARTH HOUR moment, it is just not in the right time, because it happen when I have so so so many tasks. Well, people can say it is as my excuse. But, I realize enough that the energy in my country is in crisis time. So, I think it is better to do EARTH HOUR’S’ than EARTH HOUR. There are some way we can do to save our energy.

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1. Choose one: watching Television or listening radio or doing something with computer. Some people turn on three of that things in same time. They do task in computer while turn on the television, or turn on radio. It is very waste of energy, right?

2. Turn off the lamp. It is the easiest way, but people underestimate this important thing. If you have completed with your business in bathroom or you did nothing in bedroom, it is better if you turn off the lamp. Easy, right?

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3. Cook and Eat. Some people don’t realize this matter, include my mother. We can save energy with rice cooker. After the rice is cooked, we can turn off it. Then 15 minutes before we eat, we can turn on it again.

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Well, I think there are so many many and many another way for us to save the energy. And what I mentioned is just the little part of that another many way. So, guys, let’s help the world with saving the energy. It is not a difficult thing to do, not as hard as homework, not as tired as running. Start from us, from the easy way, right now, we can make the world a better place to live on.

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Boys, do you really know about love?

Boys, Do you really know about love? Do you really really understand about love?
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I know I’m not the right person to tell this, but, from my perspective and my experience after watching music video, movie, from song’s lyric, and my friend’s story, I hope I can give you some clue about “Do you really know about love?”.
I will give you some cases and option to answer that case. The answer that you choose can describe who you are. You will know, until this time, did you do something right to someone that you love? Or, did you do something that you think you’re right? Of course, all the answer and the explanation are based on my own opinion. And because people have different personality, I think some girls won’t agree with me, but I’m just try to make a boy realize about what he did to his someone special.
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Case 1:
Someone you love (well, you can call it ‘your lover’, eventhough maybe it is just one-sided love) have hobby or something that she like to do, but, this thing is so different with her real personality. For example, she is a feminine, she always wear skirt and make up and she is not good in sport. But, someday, she tells you “Actually, I had interested to do rock-climbing. Eventhough now, I never did that yet, but someday I will do that. I wanna try that.”
Question: What will you say? Or what’s your response?
Option: (a) Wow, really? It’s amazing, I never imagine you will do that.
(b) Hahaha, don’t be kidding. You are feminine, I won’t believe you can do that.
Explanation:
For answer (a) If you give this answer, your lover will think that you appreciate her. She will be touched because of your positive response. Eventhough she maybe think that you lie, but if you give the response without much thinking, it means you really sincere. This is because girl like boy who can support.
For answer (b) Actually, isn’t it so obvious that this option is a bad answer? But, there are boy who’s clueless and choose this answer. And sometimes, when you read, you maybe won’t choose the option (b), but in reality, you won’t realize that you answer this option. Absolutely, for me, I don’t like this boy who’s answer (b). Eventhough maybe I have some special feeling to him, but, after he answer (b), I won’t like him anymore. Because it make me sad. And you have to know, boys, that you are a selfish boy if you choose this option. You describe love just from your own perspective. You love someone without thinking about her feeling. Just one word ‘SELFISH’.

Case 2:
You ask your lover to go out, but she had a date with her bestfriends, she say “I really wanna go with you, but I promise to eat with my bestfriends. I think it will be good if you join us, so I can introduce you to my friends.”
Question: Will you accept her invitation to eat with her friends or not?
Option: (a) Yes, I would like to.
(b) No, I don’t wanna meet her bestfriends. I’m too shy
Explanation:
Actually, girl want to introduce her boyfriend to her friends. She want the boy know more about herself through her friend. And, sometimes, for us (girls), our friends can judge if our boyfriend is a good boy or not.
For answer (a) Well, I can’t say anymore, absolutely the girl will give you so many points. Girl will think this boy as gentleman.
For answer (b) Come on, boys, why? Why do you have to say no? And it will be worse if you say “don’t bring your friends in our date”. Sometimes, maybe we wanna go just the two of us, but, you (boys) will look so gentle if you say “let’s date and bring your friends together, it will be fun”. You can have so many reason, you san say that you are shy or not ready yet, but, if you always decline, it means you are just a loser. You lover will think that you have something wrong.

Case 3:
It is especially for one-sided love, but, maybe it can happen to your lover. You love your lover so much, but, your girl love someone else.
Question: Will you let her go or will you hold her tightly?
Answer: I don’t know much about love. But, from my friends’ experience, when they love someone, it was so difficult to let her/him go. But, guys, do you know the definition about love? Okay, maybe this definition is different to you, but if you are a cool boy or cool girl (and I try to be like that), you will agree with this definition, “love is something you give to someone without expecting the acknowledgement” so, if your lover love someone else, you must also be happy to her/him. You can hold her, but not tightly. You have to believe with destiny, this make you more cool.
So, how is it? Do you realize after read the cases? I hope so.
The topic about love has not end yet, but, i have to collect some data to write, so keep waiting guys 😀

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I don’t believe in Love, I believe in Destiny

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Each person has their own soul-mate

In my opinion, soul-mate is someone that will be always besides you untill the end of your day. Your family is absolutely your soulmate, because they are always in your heart until you die. Your bestfriends are your soul-mate too, of course if you are still keep your friendship until the end. But now, I wanna talk about your lover as your soul-mate.

Do you have a lover right now? Do you believe that your lover now will become your soul-mate? Of course you will think your lover is your soul-mate when you are fallin in love to her/him deeply, but it’s possible that sometimes you are not sure about that.

I fall in love once, not a long time ago. Actually, I don’t know about the definition of love. But my friend said that if your heart beat faster when you’re thinking someone, it means you fallin in love with that person. Then I remember him, he is the only man that make my heart beat so fast whenever I’m thinking about him. Eventhough I have a boyfriend, but, still, he make my heart beat, not my boyfriend. But now, I realize that someone you love may not necessarily be your soul-mate. Because, even until now, this man still make my heart beat faster, then do you think that he will be my soul-mate? Nope. He will be a husband for another girl soon. Yap, he will get married.

After that, I believe that God will give us a destiny. Eventhough maybe someone that will be my soul-mate in the future is not someone that I love, but I believe he is my destiny from God. You may be curious and start to ask “how can we marry someone if we don’t love him/her?”. Yes you can. You can marry someone for some reason. Like what the old people did, they got married because of their parents. Or maybe you marry someone is just for their money or popularity or another reason. But, when you marry him/her, absolutely he/she is your destiny, your soul-mate. Maybe someday, you will fallin in love with her/him.

That’s why, now, I don’t believe with love, I believe with what God give to me, I believe in my destiny. Eventhough I fall in love deeply with someone, if he is not my destiny, then he won’t be my future husband. If I believe with love too much, I won’t accept the reality that he is not my destiny. That’s why there are people that commit suicide because of their love story ends, it means they don’t believe in destiny.

Then, how can married couple got divorced? Well, if that’s the case, I can’t answer it. Exactly, I don’t find yet the answer.

Whatever, I will just believe in destiny, I don’t belive with love.

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What should you do?

My friend ask me, “What should I do? I’m thinking about this guy all day..” well, she must be dissappoint because I can’t answer her question. Then I start to curious, I ask myself, “What will I do if I can’t stop thinking about someone?” I can’t still find the answer. And then, I ask my another friends.

It is so funny because their reaction is like I have someone special to think about. Well, actually, if you read my question carefully (read again: “What will I do if I can’t stop thinking about someone?”) , it is not always about someone special, it can be someone who’s annoy us, or someone that help us this afternoon but we can’t give anything, isn’t it? Hahaha, I think all my friends only think about the sweet thing. But, It’s okay, because when we keep thinking about our someone special, it make us frustated, desperate, but don’t be crazy, guys, okay.. Haha. So, these are the advice from my friends about “What will I do if I can’t stop thinking about someone?” , unfortunately, there is one of my friend doesn’t answer yet, it’s okay, I have the answer enough. Hohoho

This is the opinion from 7 of my friends..

1. Busy.. Busy.. Busy..

Two of my friends said that we can do our hobby or some activity to make us busy. I think I agree.. *little bit*. When we are busy or do something fun, maybe we can forget about that someone. Look! I say ‘maybe’. It is because this way is not always effective. I did. A long time ago, when I’m so desperate because of someone that always appear in my mind, I try to do my hobby to forget about him. BUT, I can’t. My hobby is watching movie, writing story, and design a dress,but whenever I did my hobby, he is still appear  and disturb my mind. But, maybe, for some people, this is the effective way, so, you can try it, guys.

2. Drawing his/her face

Maybe you will think that this way is too difficult. Haha, yepp, at first I think so. Because we have to have a skill to draw, right? Hahaha, one of my friend give this suggestion to me. But then I think again, maybe what my friend said is to draw the face up to us, it means we can draw as worst as we can do. With draw the face, we don’t feel miss him/her anymore. Hahaha.. I will try this way if someday it happen to me *promise*

3. Like the water, let it flow

Eventhough I think this way is more difficult than number 1 way, but, surprisely, three of my friends gave this answer. I still can’t understand, if we let the matter flow, then it means we still think about that someone? But we want to forget that someone, right? When I ask my friend to explain again, my friend said that you can enjoy the moment when you are thinking about that someone.. Woooww.. very good answer, isn’t it?

4. Throw your pride

Wow wow, what’s this way about? Throw our pride? Yes, throw your pride. One of my friend said that we can contact that someone. Forget about your shyness, throw your pride, and brave yourself to contact him/her. But, you can’t force her/him if he/she doesn’t give the respond. If you feel so desperate because your texting or chat doesn’t get respond, you can back to another way before, hhaaha.

Well, now, does it solve? You can choose which way and how. Now, I hope you can breath peacefully again. Hohoho. Not forget to say thank you for all of my friends who give me opinion.. Bye Bye~

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Insomia, euhh.

I believe most people felt this uncomfortable thing. Nowadays, there are so many things disturb my peaceful dream…

I can’t sleep before 3 am, eventhough I went to bed at 11 pm. First of all, it is so obvious that I get pressure from my minor thesis. And my unsure future always haunt me . Another problem is about some personal problems. I’ve try to read some article in internet about ‘how to solve our insomnia’ , it say that:

1. Drink a milk -> I’ve try, but, it doesn’t affect at all

2. Take a breath, let the matter dissappear for a while -> I did, but, still, not effective

3. Reading a book -> well, I feel asleep after I read a book, but when I go to back to my bed, taadaaa… I don’t feel asleep anymore

4. Listening music -> until my phone get low battery, I can’t sleep,even, I enjoy the music too much, kekekke..

Finally, my suggest is.. just waiting until you really wanna sleep. So, there is no way out exactly. Insomnia really make me desperate. euuhhhh.

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Do you think Love is Easy?

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One of my favourite lyric song from my favourite band is below, and yepp, i got an idea to writing about it..

McFly – Love is Easy

“If this is love, then love is easy. It’s the easiest thing to do”

Just with a glance, you’ve been know the meaning, right?
McFly say ‘love is easy’, well, in their lyric. I don’t think everyone will accept this easily. With all of your experience in love, surely there’re some sad story behind it. And that mean the lyric of McFly isn’t right. Hmmm, calm down.. You can’t tell just from one side of your view. I think McFly have many views  to interpret the phrase.

Do you love your mother? Your father? How about love for your family? Did you do something to loving your parents? Of course nope. We naturally love them.

But, it’s so funny cause we have to do something to prove our love for someone (the opposite-sex, someone who doesn’t  have blood ties with you..mm you know what i mean, okay). And more funny, we did that very hard. Not just physically, but emotionally make us hurt, sometimes. Sorry sorry, maybe just because my heart feel empty this day then i blame that stupid thing to do with love. Well, i don’t think that’s funny, anyway. Of course we have to do something to prove that we love that person, because not everyone can read people’s mind, kkekkekee.

So, what love is easy? For me, i feel love is easy when i love my parents, my sister, my brother, my family, aanddd love is very very easy if i have to love McFly ^_^ and ice cream, and chocolate, and watermelon, anddd another many thing that i looooveee~

So i guess, i don’t have someone that make me think ‘love is hard’? mmm… well… that because i still haven’t found ‘someone’ *.*

By the way, i love this song -> McFly- Love is easy. You have to try to listen too, okay? 🙂

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